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Churchill said, those who failed to learn from history are
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condemned to repeat it. Kevin Helenan believes that certainly applies
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to business. Welcome to Winning Business Radio here at W
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now your host, Kevin helen N.
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Thanks everybody for joining in again today. I'm Kevin Hallanan
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and welcome back to Winning Business TV and Radio on
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the list goes on the mission of winning business radio
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and TV. As regular viewers and listeners know, is to
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offer insights and advice to help people avoid the mistakes
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of others, right to learn best practices. Those are the
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how tos, the what to's, the what not tos, and
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well hold on a second, and to get advice and
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to get encouragement from others. But you know, as you
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hear me say every week, virtually every successful person that
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I've ever talked to has had some form of failure
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in their lives and careers. So I always say, we
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all have to get our knee skin once in a while.
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I driven to keep those scrapes from needing major surgery.
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Let's endeavor to learn from history so we don't repeat it.
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I've spent the better part of my career equipping businesses
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to grow from solopreneurs to small and medium sized companies
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all the way up to the fortune fifty. I've seen
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some of those companies win and thrive and to varyingnguries.
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I've seen some fail as well, and I've had the
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opportunity to rub elbows with some of the highest performing
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people around and with some people who probably should have
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found other proficient professions. Wow, challenging to speak today, Jen.
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In my own businesses, I've had lots of success, but
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some failures too. I like to think I've learned a
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lot from those experiences. So yeah, you're going to hear
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a little for me, but mostly you're going to hear
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from guests. Today's guest is an expert. She's a financial consultant.
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Her name is Jennifer Kilia of Johnson Brunetti and she
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has a focus on the unique needs of women with
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regard to their finance. Here is her bio. Jennifer Killia
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is a financial advisor with more than twenty years in
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the industry, specializing in retire planning. Jen is dedicated to
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deliver to delivering personalized and comprehensive financial advice to clients.
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Holding the Series sixty five license, She takes pride in
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understanding each individual's unique needs and creating customized retirement plans
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to help them achieve their goals. Jen presents at the
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firm's women only workshops, where she creates a space specifically
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for women's financial education. She holds a bachelor's degree from
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Andsel College in Manchester, New Hampshire, sharing her husband, Frank,
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reside in North Andover, mass and her parents to three daughters,
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and they enjoy family ski trips together. She's an active
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board member of one hundred Women who Care Boston North
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as well as life goes on after TBI, Jen, Welcome
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to Winning Business Radio.
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Thanks for having me, Kevin, appreciate the opportunity to be here.
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Well, it's all my pleasure. I know how busy you are,
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so let's jump right in. Tell us about Frank and
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your three daughters, and then I'll ask you about skiing.
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Yeah. Well, Frank and I have been married thirty years.
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We just celebrated our thirty year wedding anniversary. I have
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three daughters. My oldest is twenty seven and she's a
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medical school third year, trying to decide what she wants
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to focus on in rotation. My middle daughter, twenty five,
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is just moved back from Chicago, so she's been on
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home for a while. But it's really difficult for these
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kids to want independently. We had the hard conversation and
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she made the decision to come home and save her
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money and try to buy something. So we'll see how
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that works out for her. And my youngest just graduated
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from USF out in California and moved to New York
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City and so she's just starting her career month two actual.
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See, Yeah, so where do you like to ski?
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Well, partial to sugar Bush just because we go there,
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but we've had the opportunity to ski quite a bit
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all over New England. At one part of my career,
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I represented the largest owner of ski resorts. So at
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one point in my career we were doing the equity
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raiser at work for an investment company that raised equity
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for our ski resort. So it was super fun when
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the kids were younger to get to visit those fees
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and work with investors, et cetera. So that was that
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was sort of a fun point. But sugar Bush Sunday
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River is another favorite, and Luna Course is super close.
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So yeah, that's where I go most of the time.
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Is lun screwed up there a couple hours from me.
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I'm in Rosindale, so uh another half hour from you.
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You know.
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Yeah, they've done a great opened up that whole second
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half of the mountain and so it's pretty impressive and
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that industry has evolved over time as well to you know,
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they really figured out how to make it profitable.
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And I love the Quad eighty just moves people along.
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It's awesome. I understand you grew up in Westwood. I
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grew up in Midfield. As a matter of fact, so
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were the listeners and viewers who aren't familiar with Massachusetts.
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Tell us about west Wood and what it was like
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to grow up there.
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Well, Westwood it continues to be, i'd say, a very
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desirable suburb, and the real estate values have continued to
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do terrific. It's not far from Boston, maybe a half hour,
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as you know, from Medfield getting on did you say
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Millister Medfield, Midfield, Medfield, Yeah, right off one O nine.
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It's just a tough commute on that side road. Once
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you get to the highway, you're all set. But Grant
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community about thirty I would say, about thirty thousand people
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or so. I went to public education, in public high school.
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Have five I went to five kids, and yeah, great memories.
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And some of my best friends who I actually just
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saw this weekend are from the road. I grew up
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on strong, strong friendships.
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Yeah, so we like to get kind of a flavor
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of somebody's background, So did both your parents work?
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What did they do if they did?
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Yeah? So in my background, I talk about it in
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my women's workshops. Is my mother file for divorce when
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I was in second grade?
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Oh?
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She had five kids in six and a half years.
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And my father was nine years older than my mother,
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and he was an acoustic engineer with Raytheon, so he
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was further along in his career. And as most divorces go,
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at least back then, it was stretched out. And it
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just worked out that my mom was married over ten years,
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which is a big deal as you start to think
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about social Security and spousal benefits. But she was an
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only child younger obviously, and I didn't even really appreciate
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what it was like to raise five kids till I
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had three of my own, perfectly spaced out twenty twenty
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eight months apart, not plan, I guess, but if they were,
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and I think to myself, Wow, five kids six and
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a half years, that's a lot.
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I mean, I have four and they're spaced out almost
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twenty four months apart. So it's I've a thirty five,
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thirty three, thirty one in twenty nine.
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Okay, yeah, so big difference, right, Yeah, so that's good.
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Congratulations on That is fun, It's super fun.
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I can share the struggles of you know, getting out.
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We have wanted that went into the Marine Corps is
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now Boston firefighter, figured out that was the way to go.
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One that went to well as on as way to
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his bachelor's, got an associates in business and decided he
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didn't want to be in an office and got a
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certificate a year in HVAC schools. Doing a really great
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married with I mean I especially he's one of my
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favorites because he gave me two grandkids so far. No,
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they they know that's not true, but it's it's fun
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to say. And then our twenty nine, thirty one year
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old lives in Tennessee, just moves from Florida with her
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husband and they're they're doing fine, probably looking to start
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a family soon.
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And the twenty nine year old is still here.
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Oh, you know, great job at BC, but you know
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she wants to she's saving, you know, for something better too,
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so recognizing that she needs that financial support. All right,
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So Saint Ansel st Ansel great school. Why did you
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choose that school? And to major? What was your major?
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Well, Saint Anselom is a liberal arts school. So I
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went in there initially with the intention that I thought, well, gee,
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maybe it'd be interesting to have a criminal justice degree.
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I just was leaning more towards law criminal justice. After
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one semester, I felt depressed. I was like, there's no
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answer here. I'm a person where the glasses half full,
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and it was tough stuff. I felt overwhelmed, and I'm like, wow,
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I don't think I'm cut out. I mean, I look
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back and my interviewed to that school. It's just the
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funniest thing because I said I wanted to be a
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prison warden. And the reason for that was in high school,
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we went and visited Walpole Prison and that was one
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of our high school trips. And at the time, we
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met a really nice guy that came and talked to
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the kids, and he talked about how he was reformed,
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but yet he's in here for his entire life. He
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seemed like really great guy that deserved a second chance,
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and here, you know, being super naive. And then we
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get back on the bus and the teacher says, who's
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going to let him out? Who thinks he served his
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time and deserves a second chance, And of course hands
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goes up. Well, it turns out that he had this
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horrible violent crime, just horrible. He killed this woman. And
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it was once you hear the crime, you're like, I
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can't judge that. And so initially I was leaning toward
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that because I was that was just such an interesting experience.
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So the philter in high school, those it kind of
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shapes a young mind on what you think you might
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want to do, and it's just exposure. But then I
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realized after one semester, I'm like, peace out. He can't
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do it. It's too hard, you know it just I
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just felt like overwhelmed by that. I knew that wasn't
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this fot for me. So liberal arts school, liberal arts major.
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I ended up having a concentration in business. I always
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was really good with math. I did well. When I
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had success with statistics, I said, I guess I could
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focus on this. So that's how I ended up sort
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of in business as to fault, But that wasn't my
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you asked the question that was I did.
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Yeah, Well, there's always a different journey. Everybody has a
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different type of journey. Right now, as it turns out,
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you went right into financial services, you're on the wholesale side.
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So tell the audiences, both the viewers and listening audiences,
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what it is to be on the financial excuse me
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on the wholesale side.
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Yeah. So, initially from college one of those college fairs,
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I was recruited to John Hancock, So I did retail.
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When we talk about wholesale and retail, i'll break it down.
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So I had a couple of years with retail John
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Hancock talking about retirement planning. They have lots of great products.
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You work for a company, and it's not a surprise
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if I sat down and talked about retirement planning with
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you that it might include a John Hancock product, whether
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it be long term care insurance, whether it be life insurance.
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They have mutual funds, great local Boston company, and over
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time that was great. You know, my personal network is
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where they have you start, and as a recent college graduate,
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that's quite difficult to go to your friends' parents and
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start talking about planning and retirement planning there.
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And so remember me, missus, whatever I'm going, I got
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in trouble with your daughter, remember.
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nice introduction to that industry, and what I realized is
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I liked working with older people and I that industry.
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When you work for an insurance company, they give you leads.
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They call them orphans, people that no longer have an advisor.
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There was a lot of nighttime work and you drive
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in the middle of nowhere, and I was working right
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in New Hampshire. Has recruited off the campus. When I
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worked out of the Manchester office and I was driving
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all over Manchester into trailer parks, I'm like, who are
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these people like? These leads? And I realized I'd rather
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focus on daytime work. Number one and number two they
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had a really great long term care product. So I