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Churchill said, those who failed to learn from history are
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condemned to repeat it. Kevin Helenan believes that certainly applies
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to business. Welcome to Winning Business Radio here at W
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four CY Radio. That's W four cy dot com and
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now your host, Kevin Helena.
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Thanks everybody for joining in today. I am Kevin Hallan,
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and welcome back to Winning Business TV and Radio on
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wherever you get your podcast content, that's YouTube, iHeartRadio, Spotify, Apple.
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The mission of Winning Business radio and TV, as regular
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viewers and listeners know, is really to offer insights and
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advice to help people avoid the mistakes of others, to
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learn best practices.
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Those are the how tos, the what.
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Tos, the what not tos, to be challenged and hopefully
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to be inspired by the successes of others. Who are
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those others consultants, coaches, advisors, authors, founders and owners, entrepreneurs,
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people with expertise. But you know, virtually every successful person
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I've ever talked to has had some form of failure
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in their lives and careers. As I say every time,
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while we all have to get our knees skinned once
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in a while, I'm driven to keep those scrapes from
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needing major surgery. Let's endeavor to learn from history so
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we don't repeat it. I've spent the better part of
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my career equipping businesses to grow from solopreneurs to small
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and medium sized companies all the way up to the
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Fortune fifty. I've seen some of those companies win, and
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to varying degrees, I've seen some fail, and I've had
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the opportunity to rub elbows with some of the highest
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performing people around and with some who probably should have
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found other professions. And in my own businesses, I've had
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lots of success, but some failures too. I like to
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think I've learned a lot from those experiences. So yeah,
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you'll hear from me, but mostly you're going to hear
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from our guests, those experts, consultants, coaches, advisors, etc.
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And today is no exception.
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My guest today's John Gates pay negotiation, negotiation expert, keynote speaker,
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and best selling author of Act Your Wage. Here's his bio.
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John Gates is an international best selling author and Egotian
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expert negotiation expert who has overseen more than seventy five
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thousand not a typo job offers during his thirty year
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career in corporate recruiting. As a former head of global
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recruiting for multiple Fortune five hundred companies, he trained hiring
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teams on how to negotiate, giving him rare insider insight
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into what actually works.
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Now.
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The creator of the salary Coach method, John helps executives
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and job seekers confidently navigate offer conversations without risking the deal.
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His sessions blend sharp strategy with a calming, practical tone
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that audiences love and apply immediately. John's a mission driven
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speaker who loves leaves professionals saying why didn't anyone teach
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me this sooner? He's the international best selling author of
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Act Your Wage, What to Say and How to Say
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It to get the best possible salary package. He holds
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a bachelor's in Management and Finance, a double major from
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the University of Oregon. He resides in Medford, Oregon, and
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has five kids, two boys and three girls. With an
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interesting story, but we'll get to that in a moment. John,
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Welcome to Winning Business Radio.
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Thanks so much Kevin for having me. I was so
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excited to hear about your show, and now that I'm here,
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I am absolutely thrilled. It's going to be a fun
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ride today.
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I agree. I agree.
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And before we're done, John, we're going to promo a
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second appearance, which is a little unusual, but we're going
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to do it.
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So tell us about your kids.
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So I have five children. Two of them, excuse me,
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two of them are biological. They're both boys, and the
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three girls are all adopted and adopted them when they
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were older. Children like most people who expand through adoption
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adopt when they are you know, children are very young.
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They do that for specific personal reasons. But you know,
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I wanted to impact the lives of people that were
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already somewhat formed and so on, and so I adopted
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two girls from Columbia, South America when they were ten
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and seven, and now they're about thirty and twenty seven,
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so they've come a long way. And adopted another girl
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from Alabama. Met her through the foster care system when
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she was sixteen, actually adopted her when she was in
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her mid to late twenties, and now she is thirty seven.
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So most people have no idea why you would adopt
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a child, or anyone for that matter, who's older than
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age eighteen. But over the years, I built a very
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personal relationship with this person, she had been involved in
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the family. I'd become a primary advisor for her in
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a lot of ways of her life. And I know
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that people who grow up without a family identity are
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at risk in a lot of ways. Like I think,
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you need to know where you belong to who you are.
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That's really foundational life for any person.
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So and I know in today's you know, in today's world,
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it's controversial to even say a father figure, but I
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believe people I think you do too, need both a
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mother and a dad.
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Yeah, absolutely true, and people who don't have that have
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a really hard time making good choices. Children who age
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out of foster care are significantly higher for criminal backgrounds,
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for single motherhood, single fatherhood. Basically, they make less desirable
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decisions throughout their life. Data bears this out. If you
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look at the prison population of the United States, a
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very large portion of those folks are people who aged
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out of the foster system without any sort of meaningful
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family connection. And if you think about it this way,
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this is kind of how it works. Like I don't
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know about you, Kevin, but when I was growing up,
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a lot of the reasons why I didn't do certain
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things is because Grandma would have been ashamed if I
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had been caught doing or I would have disappointed my
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mother or something like that kind of acts as a
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curb on your behavior. It enhances your conscience in those situations.
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But if you're growing up in a group home, which
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is where most foster teens live, who are your influencers, Well,
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they're usually going to be state employees or other foster
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kids that you're in that group home with, who are
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equally like untethered. And I think that's why bad choice
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is life altering decisions. You know, the face tattoo or
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something like that happens to you when you're in that situation.
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It's funny you were saying that, and I remember my grandmother,
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My mom's maiden name was Rachuti Italian, and she would
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my grandmother always say, would always say, make sure they
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know you're a rachutee. I mean, she was really about
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reputation and good choices. But you just reminded me of that.
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So now you grew up in Oregon as well.
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Yeah, I did. I was born here, raised here, lived
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in Portland and Eugene, graduated from the University of Oregon
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in Eugene, and then sometime around nineteen ninety eight I
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left Oregon to chase the Fortune five hundred career. I
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ended up moving to Richmond, Virginia, which is about as
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far away from Oregon as you can get and still
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be in the continental US. And after that I went
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to Birmingham, Alabama, then to Fort Wayne, Indiana, then to
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Saint Louis, Missouri, then to Houston, Texas and now back
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in Oregon. So I've lived in a lot of places.
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Yeah, we're going to talk about some of those positions.
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What were your early interests though, before college?
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Before college? A great question. So when I was in
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middle school, I wanted to be an astronaut, and that
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was no like casual interest either. I actually reverse engineered
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the path I would need to take in seventh grade.
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I did this on my own figure out well, all right,
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I thought about, how do most people get to become astronauts,
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and typically they are navy pilots something like that. And
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so how do you become a naval aviator, top gun
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guy something like that. Well, you need to have an
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appointment to the Naval Academy. How do you get that?
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You need the you know, a sponsor, like a senator
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or somebody like that usually to get you into the
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naval academy. That's very helpful. So I was thinking about
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this stuff at the age of I don't know, twelve
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or twelve years old. I was really good. What I
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was going to do was really inspired. It was a
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huge goal of mine to become an astronaut. A little
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later on in life, though, I switched over to wanting
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to be a scientist, and then I figured, well, you know,
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all the scientists of the world, they work for business people,
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and so then I decided to shift over into a
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business focus and always had a strong interest in owning
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my own company one day, so I majored in management
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and finance, thinking that that would help me toward owning
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my own company one day.
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Here, I am, what was behind your decision to go
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to your organ.
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I lived there at the time. Actually thought about getting
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into a university in California called Harvey Mud University, which
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a lot of people don't know about Harvey Mud, but
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it's like an mi I on the West Coast, very niche.
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The best science nerds of the universe go to Harvey Mutt.
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I actually didn't get in. It was a shock. I
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was one of these people. It was used to achieving everything.
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Took five advanced placement courses as a senior in high
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school science, languages, and music, so I was very very
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well rounded and active in the community, and I still
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didn't get in, very very selective. So it was after
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that that I sort of did some rediscovery and decided
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just to attend the University of Oregon because it was local.
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I was going to fund all of my own university costs.
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My family weren't in any position to help me at
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the time, so I ended up figuring out the most
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efficient path to completing university with the smallest investment possible. Man.
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Back in those days, they would charge you full time
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tuition for twelve or more credits in a term, and
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I took advantage of that, taking eighteen to twenty one
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credits a term, oh Man to to reduce the cost
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per class basically, And that was that was the way
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I was thinking about things. I guess I've always been
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a little bit of a logical pathfinder in those ways.
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Yeah. I remember my student loan payment was fifty five
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dollars a month, I mean, and I thought that was
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a lot.
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You know.
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I worked my way through college. Like Besides that sort
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of heavy courseload, I worked thirty hours a week at
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Domino's Pizza Oh wow, Yeah, slinging pizza and try not
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to speed because back then there was a thirty minute guarantee.
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They had to do away with that eventually, But that
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made working at domino Is exciting and fun. It was
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a place I.
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Can challenge every delivery, right Yeah, yeah, So how did
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you I mean kind of a big answer here, just
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maybe the last question before our first commercial break, But
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how did you get to recruiting and talent management at
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such a high level.
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Well, the first part of that is how did I
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get into it at all? Like I wanted to be
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a financial analyst and got an offer while I was
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in college to join a big tech company in Portland,
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Oregon to be a financial analyst. And three weeks before
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I got that I was supposed to start, they sent
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me a message, a letter saying We're so sorry, but
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we're rescinding all offers for anyone who hasn't started yet.
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So I had that happen to me once.
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Yeah, too bad, So sad you're laid off before you
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even start. And so I was in a position where
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I was newly married, had a son on the way
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he wasn't born yet, my first son, and terrified. So
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I ended up just networking like crazy. It took me
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three months in a poor economy in the Pacific Northwest
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to find my job after college, and I ended up
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recruiting for a temporary agency in Portland. They hired me
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because I had a degree and I could speak Spanish,
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and I looked good in a suit, and that was
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the criteria. They wanted me to go open a new
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office in Hillsboro, which and that was heavily hispanic at
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the time, and they wanted someone who could recruit that population,